I'm joining Wednesday's Hodgepodge. Just click on the link to participate.
My mother kept a neat house and always made very good dinners. She was always there for me. I wish my house and meals were as good as hers. What is more important though...is the fact that she was always there for me. I always had a place to go if I had questions or needed help. This is the example that I've been able to emulate with my own children and because of this my children are all thriving in life.
I do remember a time when my mother showed me a newspaper article about a local dance studio while she asked me if I would like to take dancing lessons. I liked the idea and within the next week I was happily taking dancing lessons. These lessons gave me a passion for something I enjoyed and kept me out of trouble in my teen years as I was heavily involved in cheer leading and gymnastics with friends. My brothers were less fortunate because they had the wrong friendships. I'm so appreciative of this endeavor in my life. If it wasn't for my active life as a young person, I may have ended up with the wrong friendships as my parents were possibly a bit too lenient with us.
2. A quote most commonly ascribed to Plato reads-"Necessity is the mother of invention." When did this last play out in your own experience?
I invented a game that reflects Psalm 23 and I've used it in many of the homeschool and religion classes I've taught for the last five years. One of them is a journal writing class. Anyone knows that writing is a challenging subject to teach young ones. This game made the class so enjoyable for the kids. I'm so grateful for the Holy Spirit leading me to come up with the idea for my game.
3. Share one of the earliest memories you have from childhood.
My father was in the Navy and we were stationed on a base in Oahu. I remember going to the Chief's Club with my Dad and all his friends would call me "princess." Boy did I feel like a princess to have all these awesome military men all around me. He would order me a Shirley Temple. I felt like I was in heaven! I know this isn't about my Mom but I seem to remember more earlier accounts with my Dad.
4. When did you last 'hit the mother lode'? What was it?
When my second oldest son found a new girlfriend. His breakup with his first girlfriend really hurt him. I was so happy when he found a smarter girl to date. He turned to my husband and I to try to get over the hurt. My own heart was breaking as I saw how much he suffered. I know it is wrong to get so serious before one is married, but God has turned to him in his hour of need here too.
5. What is/was your favorite dish mom made? Do you make that dish for your family/friends now that you're all grown up?
My favorite dish as a child was spaghetti with my mom's homemade sauce. Yes, I make it for my own family. It is very meaty and spicy. I can not eat pasta like I used to when I was younger. It puts on the calories for me.
6. Mother May I? was at one time a popular children's game. It required no equipment or parts to play. What was your favorite childhood game to play where you could just turn up and play-no gear needed?
I remember playing hide-and-seek for hours upon end with my neighborhood friends. Two sisters lived next door to me and we would talk to each other from inside our kitchen windows which faced together. They actually became like the sisters I never had for myself.
7. Which TV mom (past or present) is your favorite, and why?
I particularly like "I Dream of Jennie." She didn't have children (I have five) but for some reason I really liked this show. I think I liked the idea of her lover being so intricately connected to the military as my own father was in his life. As you can see, my mom cherished my father and let him develop a close relationship with me too.