This hateful driving force is laid out in Marshall Kirk and Hunter Madsen's book called "After the Ball: How America Will Conquer its Fear and Hatred of Gays in the 90's." You see that right in the very title of this book they negligently label what in most cases is a simple choice or disagreement on how to live peacefully by calling it fear and hatred. Thus, in their attempt to fight this supposedly "fear and hatred," it justifies their utilization of intimidation and hate to stop it.
This driving hateful force is called 'jamming.' Jamming is psychological terrorism meant to silence expression of or even support for dissenting opinion. Everyone has a right to be able to express their views and have opinions about virtuous and peaceful ways of living. As you can see, there is nothing virtuous, loving, or peaceful about jamming. In jamming - the target is shown a "bigot" being rejected by his crowd for his "prejudice" (of which it is not but only a simple choice or disagreement on how to live peacefully) against gays. Therefore, just by knowing that the homosexual lifestyle is unsuitable for their own lives as disciples...Christians are called "bigots."
If the homosexual does not want to live by God's standards, they have a free will to choose this approach. This does not mean they have to spit obsenities at Christians for having a free will to live under God's standards. Many of them display an uncontrollable anger toward the other who choose to live under God's laws. In this book, they are actually taught to view the other as their opponent. The Christian is not their opponent that needs to be contested, conflicted, and debated with in order for them to express their homosexuality without forcing it on others and attain the same financial benefits as those in a heterosexual marriage exactly because Christians are not judging them but simply choosing a different way to live.
To judge means: to form an opinion about through careful weighing of evidence and testing of premises; to sit in judgement on; to determine or pronounce after inquiry and deliberation; govern rule; to form an estimate or evaluation of. There is data that exists on the results that are derived in the homosexual lifestyle and the heterosexual lifestyle. This is what should be analyzed by our political leaders in order to make favorable gay rights legislation because they do have to become a type judge in this situation (it's a shame that too many ignore or try to distort the facts on homosexuality).
Political leaders are the individuals homosexuals need to work with (not condemn) in order to receive help. Homosexual civil unions or gay marriage (not marriage) is relatively new and gays need to start focusing on improving the data that reflects their own lifestyle rather than hatefully attacking innocent bystanders. In other words, start worrying about themselves instead of sticking their nose in the lives of others to make them out to be "haters" and "homophobes." Jamming doesn't just take place with words anymore...it takes place with one's physical prescence now by gay activists or "trans people" desiring to intrude into women's restrooms violating their privacy and modesty. Jamming in and of itself is hateful and violent language and perverted instrusion. Homosexuals seem to be seeking respect for their lifestyle but will not get it by jamming, forcing Christians to participate in their wedding ceremonies, denying women the ability to honor their modesty and privacy in women's restrooms, or setting themselves up as a priviledged class whose needs trump the needs of others.